tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post1241750480656088018..comments2023-09-11T08:47:24.641-04:00Comments on Wedding Planning in Exile: Everyone's got an opinion!Bride in Exilehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08842191847941847564noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post-40116817423618012662009-09-18T00:35:09.289-04:002009-09-18T00:35:09.289-04:00Wow! Some people are unbelievably out-of-line. Har...Wow! Some people are unbelievably out-of-line. Hard to understand how they survive adult life. Makes you really sick of the "bridezilla" crap in the media, too. Those of you dealing with relatives and guests like that and keeping your heads are amazing, inspirational women. Regarding the cake, you should have said you were thinking of her "light and slight" appetite!Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03424775887413664641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post-17585567423105864952009-08-20T19:47:51.896-04:002009-08-20T19:47:51.896-04:00Hugs. Forget the bitchy comments however hard tha...Hugs. Forget the bitchy comments however hard that may be. <br /><br />So much easier to bitch than be nice.anna and the ringhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061035220548972874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post-75119281297511641322009-08-18T16:29:30.757-04:002009-08-18T16:29:30.757-04:00as one of your guests I must say that your father&...as one of your guests I must say that your father's gf is entirely off--there was plenty of hot, delicious food, and there was just the perfect amount of cake to top off a long evening of yumminess. <br /><br />Anyone who has to prove their awesomeness by putting down other people is hardly worth a second thought or glance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post-9097140251312249512009-08-17T10:11:00.035-04:002009-08-17T10:11:00.035-04:00A., I'm sending you a big mental hug right now...A., I'm sending you a big mental hug right now! The truth is, you can't please everyone. Like Abbie said, we just have to remember the day for what it meant to us, and not try to guess at how it looked through the eyes of others.<br /><br />LPC, major bonus points for using "inverse metric" in a blog comment! (I love a good math reference.)<br /><br />Laura and OBB, Bride in Exilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08842191847941847564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post-68678699480166727992009-08-16T14:22:11.272-04:002009-08-16T14:22:11.272-04:00Oh how I feel this. Everyone was all posi the day ...Oh how I feel this. Everyone was all posi the day after our wedding--even my cantankerous parents. I thought it was a miracle. I was wrong. Last night we returned from our honeymoon and my parents gave us a lift home and my father proceeded to list a series of complaints about the wedding. They are, indeed, really hard to hear, and it makes me really angry because it's just so unnecessarily Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post-8928603653138655772009-08-15T03:32:06.649-04:002009-08-15T03:32:06.649-04:00What is the world coming to, when people assume th...What is the world coming to, when people assume that a wedding cake is fake? This is awful! I've never been to a wedding with a fake cake, but I'd be soooo disappointed if I ever encountered one...<br /><br />Someone who complains about a special occasion they've been invited to share is just rude. Too bad that she couldn't appreciate all that was glorious about the day!One Barefoot Bridehttp://www.onebarefootbride.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post-71294336703069888942009-08-14T17:51:40.273-04:002009-08-14T17:51:40.273-04:00It was perfect for you... but it is hard to ignore...It was perfect for you... but it is hard to ignore the comments. My friends that "helped" (or didn't) made comments about how crappy some of my vendors were, while I was trying to ignore how crappy they were. I told myself that I need to remember it as the amazing day it was because of us... not the day it was in everyone else's eyes.Abbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01292159217906096526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post-21449177863762876872009-08-14T15:53:45.243-04:002009-08-14T15:53:45.243-04:00Ignore people who make comments. As my dad used t...Ignore people who make comments. As my dad used to say: "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all". Some people could serve to learn a thing or two about that statement.<br /><br />A good time consists of more than the prefect piece of cake and warm food....and really I highly doubt most people even had those complications. Sounds like a classic Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10908566905361778751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2256925338220785394.post-64150575270598520392009-08-14T11:54:35.945-04:002009-08-14T11:54:35.945-04:00She sounds like the kind of person who hates every...She sounds like the kind of person who hates everything. Probably her discontent is an inverse metric for how everyone else felt.LPChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18209861350905135093noreply@blogger.com